Beauty standards are different around the world, but unfortunately, some unfair and unrealistic expectations still exist after centuries. In this age of female empowerment and body positivity, we need to abandon these outdated beauty standards that hold us back. Here are all the narrow ideals we need to shed in order to embrace the true spectrum of beauty that exists within all of us.
1. No stretch marks
What are we, Barbie dolls? Stretch marks are 100% normal, whether you have had children or have lost or gained weight at some point in your life. For many women, these warrior marks are a sign of growth and strength. Our body has undergone so many changes and has allowed us to transform over the years. Whether it’s from losing or gaining weight, pregnancy, or just growing up, these marks are a badge of honor that we should never be ashamed of.
2. Round hips
There are tons of exercise videos that claim you can get rid of hips and get perfectly round hips to achieve that coveted hourglass figure. Realistically, no amount of exercise can fill this void, which exists due to our makeup and genetics. Since these are not things we can change, we suggest you remember that hips are always a sign of feminine sensuality, no matter what shape or size your hips are. Here’s to embracing our all-encompassing beauty instead of obsessing over the little things.
3. Manicured nails
Women are constantly pressured to get their nails done, which takes time and money. Also, some just don’t like to feel anything on their nails. While prioritizing self-care is fine, the most important thing is to feel comfortable in your own skin and express yourself the way you want.
4. Perfect smooth pearly whites
Having a gap or crooked teeth is totally normal. After all, not all human dental anatomy is the same, and there is no one-size-fits-all dental standard. A crooked or gaping smile can be beautiful – never be ashamed to hide your smile or keep your mouth shut in photos because you don’t think you’re good enough. That only perpetuated these harmful societal beauty standards.
5. A sharp jaw
Facial features like the jawline are another beauty standard that people are forced to adhere to. While we think a baby face with softer features can be just as stunning and charming, a strong jawline is often more coveted. Having surgery to change your chin or cheeks should not replace self-esteem.
6. Culture of recovery
This toxic trend refers to the societal expectation that new moms return to their pre-baby bodies and appearance as quickly as possible. It’s not safe for new moms to prioritize their looks over their emotional and physical health, especially at a time when their bodies are going through so much. Everyone is different and heals differently. Instead, we should celebrate new mothers for being just as resilient and strong as they are. That in itself is a beautiful thing.
7. No underarm fat
Also known as an “armpit murmur,” there are many articles and videos that promise to get rid of this. However, removing specific blemishes with oil is not possible, and buildup in the area is often due to genetics, hormones, or other conditions. Society places unrealistic pressure on women to have toned bodies, but remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and there is no such thing as perfection.
8. Tamed hair
Although frizzy hair is frustrating, it’s something we can’t change without a significant amount of styling and hair products. Unfortunately, frequent straightening can lead to even more fluffy and frizzy hair over time. Instead of trying to transform your locks into something they’re not, embrace the natural uniqueness of our hair and let it be a source of confidence for you.
9. Smooth skin
We all suffer from acne and other skin problems from time to time, but women are expected to look flawless and flawless in real life. However, in real life, there is no Photoshop, filters, or Facetune. Instead, the skin becomes riddled with blemishes and textures. This is not a bad thing, it is individual characteristics that make you unique. Instead of comparing yourself to super edited pictures, embrace your skin as it is and ignore the criticism!
